For years, I believed management meant having all of the solutions. I believed it was about staying polished, assured and at all times one step forward. But when there’s one factor I’ve realized, it’s this: Actual management isn’t about trying good; it’s about being current.
I’ll admit, this lesson didn’t come naturally. Early in my profession, I labored exhausting to seem unshakable, separating “work me” from “actual me,” pondering vulnerability had no place in management.
However in the future, after delivering what I believed was a spot-on, motivating speech throughout a workforce transition, a trusted colleague stated to me, “It doesn’t really feel like we’re being sincere about what’s actually occurring.” That stopped me in my tracks. I noticed my try to guide with confidence was creating doubt as an alternative of belief.
Right here’s the factor: Individuals don’t join with good leaders. They join with actual ones. Once we present up authentically, we create an atmosphere the place others really feel protected to be themselves too. Vulnerability isn’t a weak spot; it’s the important thing to belief, innovation and a tradition the place individuals really feel empowered to do their finest work.
How one can be an genuine chief
So, how can we get there? It begins with letting go of the concept that leaders must have all of it collectively. As a substitute, let’s give attention to:
• Proudly owning the exhausting stuff: Once we admit our challenges, we make it OK for others to do the identical.
• Being curious, not sure: Asking questions and in search of enter opens the door to new concepts.
• Celebrating progress, not perfection: Each misstep is a step towards development.
What would occur if we stopped attempting to look like leaders and centered extra on being leaders? How would possibly that shift the best way we lead our groups, our companies and ourselves?
If you happen to’ve been holding again—whether or not it’s a tricky dialog, a daring thought or a glimpse of the actual you—that is your invitation to lean in. I promise, the magic is within the mess.
Right here’s to exhibiting up, as we’re, and constructing one thing extraordinary collectively.
Till subsequent time,
Amy Somerville
CEO of SUCCESS® Enterprises
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This text initially appeared within the Could situation of SUCCESS+ digital journal. Picture by ©Mike D’Avello
